A lot of people simply don’t feel comfortable receiving oral sex. For some women in particular, this is due to insecurities about their scent or taste, or their internalized beliefs that their genitals are “ugly.” Some worry that their partners are finding the experience unpleasant. Others dislike being the center of attention, or find themselves unable to relax when receiving. Women are socialized to be hypercritical of their bodies, so having your eyes, nose, and mouth right in the middle of one of the most sensitive parts of it is going to evoke at least a little resistance. To give woman cunnilingus you need to have guts. Most men always avoid going that direction. The truth of the matter is, all women love cunnilingus. Your decision of learning the art of cunnilingus and performing it on her will make her stay by your side forever. Cunnilingus gives a woman the satisfaction she really wants. It always makes the woman feel like she is in a heaven of her own. Due to the intense pleasure, your woman will always keep asking for more from you. Here are some tips on how to give cunnilingus to your woman.

As we're starting to see more cunnilingus scenes on our screens, what does it mean to society and wider culture when we see characters eating pussy on the big screen? How does it affect our views on female-focused pleasure? What goes into staging a cunnilingus scene? Discuss your hygiene preferences openly and without shame outside of the bedroom, to ensure that both parties feel comfortable engaging in all forms of sex. ‘Not only will this help both parties focus on pleasure, but it will prioritise each individual's preferences and boundaries, in and out of the bedroom,’ Sabat says. 2. Shower together Ted Don’t call anal penetration sinful, or even pornography. Later is a fantasy, played by actors/actresses while the former is an intimate form of sexuality. Sure pornography gives the wrong impression on sexuality but it is not based on religious believes more on how sex actually works. While watching porn is reading a book, doing sexual intercourse or any other form of sex (like oral/anal) is writing a book. I agree, I could have spent more time on Paul or Jewish sexuality, but I had blog-sized space and wanted to offer a different perspective (see Loader, Gagnon, Brooten, et al who have argued extensively from a Jewish perspective).

Here’s an expert guide to cunnilingus, including a step-by-step guide on how to give (and receive) oral pleasure, plus the all-important STI and sexual health risks associated with the sex act: What is cunnilingus?

Try some different positions until you find one that works for you. Doggy style – where the receiver should be on their hands and knees, while the giver kneels behind them – enables the giver to engage with their partner’s genitals and anus fully and comfortably, says Sabat.So the first thing is to ask what they like and what they don’t like, what they’re into, what they’re not into.” If you get a head grab (as long as you're ok with it) or some good moaning or writhing, you know you're onto a good thing. You can of course, also take a breather and ask.

Then, another practice that vulva owners really enjoy is teasing, so moving between the legs, teasing using your breath or the warmth of your body, maybe a slight touch and then moving away, you can also tease using underwear.”A recent study found that heterosexual women take an average of 13.41 minutes to orgasm while having sex with their long-term partners (women in non-heterosexual encounters and vulva owners who aren't women may take about the same time, we don’t have the research).

The first and foremost step is making sure you and your partner are clean. You can do this by taking a shower together or soaking in the bath tub. You can use sweet scented soap or bathing gel to give her that sweet scent that will instantly get her turned on. Of course, some veteran actors aren't all that keen on the new way of doing things. Game of Thrones alumnus Sean Bean recently said that intimacy coordinators "spoil the spontaneity." More important than spontaneity, however, is the safety of actors on set and it’s clear that the strict-yet-necessary restrictions regarding consent, boundaries, and touching are being welcomed by actors, directors, and production companies as a whole. Don’t just get your head in between the legs but intend to arouse their body by stimulating their erogenous zones by kissing, touching, stimulating other parts of their body and really building up that arousal,” Georgia says. Combine this with finger and palm massage. After circling her vulva with your tongue, do the same with fingers using light, moderate, or deep pressure, as the woman prefers.Like any sexual experience, oral sex is often best when you play the long game. Work your way up to engaging the most pleasurable areas of your partner's body to ensure they feel the most arousal and tension possible, Sabat suggests. In this scenario, start with the vulva and lips.