My 14 yr old DD loves X Factor but is mature enough to know it's all nonsense, having said that she has wanted to wear padded bras since she was 12. Have just read this thread, and have to agree - in fact both DP and me commented on the fact it was pretty risque for 7. To calculate the overall star rating and percentage breakdown by star, we don’t use a simple average. As we grow, heal and mature we have to help this part of ourself along with our wounded child (see previous post) become integrated into our adult understanding and the safety we co-create in our bodies, so they can release some of their learned defenses and respond in a more healthy way. As we do this, they can start to help us in relationships respond appropriately to warning signs, advocate for our needs, set healthy boundaries, and express our anger and disappointment in a regulated way.

They also hold a lot of our pride- the manifestation of our mistrust that leads us rely on ourselves. Oh how I love the highly defensive, angry and adolescent child within us 😅 Our angry child or adolescent self is the part of us that we normally feel the most ashamed of, impatient with, and at war with. I watched the film Burlesque last night and saw that Christina's performance of "Express" was in fact in the film with the same dancing and costumes.

WAYYYY too much and I dont want my boys thinking that is what is normal or sexy growing up - whatever happened to looking at the knickers section in the kays catalogue as a boy - no need for it anymore! i've just complained to ofcom, itv and thames talk who edit the programme - about the sexism,misogyny and general vileness of the dancing on the show - didn't feel as though my complaint was being taken very seriously though. New with tags: A brand-new, unused, unworn and undamaged item in the original packaging (such as the . This wasn't just prancing around semi-clad it was proper gyrating and writhing worthy of a strip joint! Makes me wonder why our foremothers burned their bras if people think this is the norm for women these days.

They need to be heard, seen, and known past their exterior defense so their deeper needs can be met. I, too, have been making comparisons with strict regimes such as in muslim countries where there is still vast amounts domestic violence/rape/exploitation of women. I'm used to scantily clad dancers and a fair bit of gyrating on TV, but that was a whole new level, which is why so many people were outraged. Caucasian young man smiling dressed like nerd sitting at computer looking at viewer with Caucasian young blonde woman in french maid outfit bending over and pointing. Jake Shears on the other hand was bouncing around in a PVC bondage outfit that exposed his chest and made a feature of his package, but it was all strangely wholesome compared with the porno-lite on the X Factor.

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My 4 yr old ds knows exactly how where babies come from down to the sperm's tail falling off when it meets an egg! Caucasian young man dressed like nerd wearing propeller hat holding hands with Caucasian blonde young woman wearing tshirt reading I love nerds and plaid skirt.A digression from the OP, but with all the talk of men in suits vs women in their pants in pop music, I went to see Scissor Sisters the other day - Ana Matronic wore a knee-length, flare-skirted dress with long sleeves and a high neckline (ok, it was made of PVC but she was pretty much covered up) and she not only had more sex appeal in her little finger than any of those dancers on the X factor, but she was also a brilliant performer - as are Christina A and Rihanna - so why do they do it? Should I hover over the TV remote when relaxing watching one of my fave shows just in case they suddenly change the boundaries of taste and acceptability?