In practice, however, while my mother administered spankings in a detached and businesslike manner, my father’s spankings were a different story. I flew into his arms and kissed him like I would die, the spanking forgotten, until I tried to sit down that is. It’s highly important to be aware of the color changes of the skin as blood rushes to the place of impact.

She could hardly bear this: she wanted to jump up and run away – but she knew that whatever he did, it couldn’t be worse than the alternatives. I want your legs apart – touching the inside of the back legs of the chair, and I want you to hold onto the very bottom of the front legs. When we got into the mobile home, I immediately sat down on the sofa, and the husband sat towards the front of the mobile home where he would have a clear view of her bottom and legs. Ma led her to the armchair and laid her across both arms with her bottom towards the room and raised her skirts and lowered her panties. However, if individuals wish to try spanking therapy with a partner, they may want to speak with a trained spanking therapist first for advice or training.She started asking questions, such as, "Are you just going to use your hand, You are not going to spank hard, are you, and, can I leave my panties up? g., pediatricians and family medicine physicians) begin to discuss parents' discipline methods no later than nine months of age and consider initiating such discussions by age 3–4 months. Clear communication is important, so the practitioner understands what people are hoping to get out of the session and the acts with which they can remain comfortable. He never raised a hand to my mother, and he certainly, it seemed obvious to me, did not beat his kids. Starting out slowly going from one cheek to the other, and, down the middle, I spanked her approximately 100 times.

Parent-child violence in one context was clearly abuse, while parent-child violence in another context was clearly discipline. Paddles can be used to reach different parts of your cheek, and using a standing position can work well—especially when bending at the waist.Taking Anita by the hand, I guided her forcefully over my lap, and, when she hesitated for a split second, trying to brace herself with her other hand against my thigh, I immediately flicked it forward with my spanking hand, and pulled her quickly across my lap, secureing her in position with my strong arm, and vice like grip of my hand around her tiny waist.

Three days after my arrival the five of us, Ma, her three younger daughters and myself, were sitting down for dinner. Spanking and Other Corporal Punishment of Children by Parents: Undervaluing Children, Overvaluing Pain". All I can do is to work, day by day, to set those lessons aside and teach my own child different ones. Then… she stepped into her panties, and pulled them up her legs so slowly, feeling as they reached the top how swollen her buttocks were: they must have been swollen to twice their usual size!As my large hand rested on her small bottom cheeks, she came to the full realization that was in a position that she had never been before, as an adult at least. The spanking was a pretty thorough affair and before long, it was all I could do to hug into his lap in submission.